Condensed Milk Sandwiches and the Crucial Trucial States

Four Lanes Good Two Lanes Bad?

2010-11-13T20:51:00.003+04:00

Well the first part of the rebuild of Dubai Al Ain Road is looking fresh and new. The bit out from Al Foah is now complete.

I was expecting the improved road to be a three lane (I think Americans call that a 6 lane, counting both sides of the road). But, no! Now it's painted it turns out they've made it a 4-lane road! So, no surprises to see the crazy driving back in force including racing four-a-breadth. Ridiculous.

One thing I'm so happy about - goodbye rumble-strips!

Superb Sachin

2010-02-25T10:48:00.001+04:00

T20 World Cup Qualifiers

2010-02-14T11:14:00.001+04:00

Holland beat Afghanistan
Ireland beat UAE
Afghanistan beat UAE to qualify for the World Cup
Ireland beat Holland to qualify for the World Cup
Afghanistan beat Ireland to win the tournament

Haiti Earthquake Emergency Appeal

2010-01-17T14:28:00.000+04:00

It's art, Jim, but not as we know it.

2010-01-05T21:48:00.000+04:00

It was a very strange sense of confusion followed by aspiration that came over me in the last few days.

I think I have mentioned the wish to "get in touch" with my artistic side - assuming, that is, that I have one! It is at least moving forward (at a snail's lack-of-pace) in the languages area (where in the last 2 days, I've learned to read and write 15 words in my mother-tongue - in which I am currently illiterate).

The blog, I guess, is a part of that wish. Hence the idea of labelling my own writings on here - at some point (soon).

The area of art, photography and general creativity has been at a standstill for some time. It was negatively impacted recently when I saw this cartoon. I thought - is that me? Then I read this article in the National describing the art of those true souls who are in it "where it's simply about personal creativity and expression." No aim for gain, no aim for fame. Not even an expectation of appreciation.

I have been too engrossed in the geeky (trekky? Hence the title) things recently - like spreadsheets, equations and numbers. In the common but incorrect parlance, very left-brained. But the hope is still there to get away from the (I won't call it mundane, rather ongoing) grind of left-brained mediocrity at the workplace and use some of this free (yet priceless) time.

The article gave an insight into the motives of artists and also reminded me of something of the "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance" - the essence of quality. If you haven't read "ZATAOMM" - do! I guess that is what I am aiming for. A whole-brained scientific/artistic ideal with most importantly a High Quality result.

Speaking of which, there is the link back to Islam. The combination of art and science (at least mathematics) at the heart of a lot of the early Islamic art and architecture. I was very fortunate to receive a gift about geometric patterns from Islam by Eric Broug. This will be an area which I explore...

Writing - in my own words

2009-12-30T12:28:00.001+04:00

It seems that fewer and fewer of my posts are actually written by me! Blog posts are tending to be links or copy/pastes of things that I found interesting elsewhere.

I am going to add a label ("Own Words") to indicate things that I have written myself.

Lovely day for cricket!

2009-12-30T12:25:00.000+04:00

I hope to get out to Mubazzarah in Al Ain (UAE) later with the folks. I think I shall be picking up a cricket bat from the shops on the way! Sorry to all South African friends!! It looks like England are on the verge of a memorable victory and not least with the aid of the referral system!

It's especially surprising when the England squad are on record as disagreeing with referrals! But, I think it is a good aid. I hope to see some records of umpires' performances - number of times referred, number of decisions upheld. That would make for interesting reading!

It seems that it should also encourage more result matches, which can only be a good thing. Often, the complaint I hear about test match cricket is that they play for five days and the result is a draw! In the past, I have always been familiar with the "benefit of the doubt to the batsmen" guideline "if in doubt give it - Not Out!" But now, it seems that the doubting or uncertain not out decisions in favour of the batsmen are being overturned and there are some quick wickets tumbling.

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Television - Roald Dahl

2009-12-25T15:04:00.001+04:00

Television

By Roald Dahl (1916-1990)

The most important thing we've learned,
So far as children are concerned,
Is never, NEVER, NEVER let
Them near your television set --
Or better still, just don't install
The idiotic thing at all.
In almost every house we've been,
We've watched them gaping at the screen.
They loll and slop and lounge about,
And stare until their eyes pop out.
(Last week in someone's place we saw
A dozen eyeballs on the floor.)
They sit and stare and stare and sit
Until they're hypnotised by it,
Until they're absolutely drunk
With all that shocking ghastly junk.
Oh yes, we know it keeps them still,
They don't climb out the window sill,
They never fight or kick or punch,
They leave you free to cook the lunch
And wash the dishes in the sink --
But did you ever stop to think,
To wonder just exactly what
This does to your beloved tot?
IT ROTS THE SENSE IN THE HEAD!
IT KILLS IMAGINATION DEAD!
IT CLOGS AND CLUTTERS UP THE MIND!
IT MAKES A CHILD SO DULL AND BLIND
HE CAN NO LONGER UNDERSTAND
A FANTASY, A FAIRYLAND!
HIS BRAIN BECOMES AS SOFT AS CHEESE!
HIS POWERS OF THINKING RUST AND FREEZE!
HE CANNOT THINK -- HE ONLY SEES!
'All right!' you'll cry. 'All right!' you'll say,
'But if we take the set away,
What shall we do to entertain
Our darling children? Please explain!'
We'll answer this by asking you,
'What used the darling ones to do?
'How used they keep themselves contented
Before this monster was invented?'
Have you forgotten? Don't you know?
We'll say it very loud and slow:
THEY ... USED ... TO ... READ! They'd READ and READ,
AND READ and READ, and then proceed
To READ some more. Great Scott! Gadzooks!
One half their lives was reading books!
The nursery shelves held books galore!
Books cluttered up the nursery floor!
And in the bedroom, by the bed,
More books were waiting to be read!
Such wondrous, fine, fantastic tales
Of dragons, gypsies, queens, and whales
And treasure isles, and distant shores
Where smugglers rowed with muffled oars,
And pirates wearing purple pants,
And sailing ships and elephants,
And cannibals crouching 'round the pot,
Stirring away at something hot.
(It smells so good, what can it be?
Good gracious, it's Penelope.)
The younger ones had Beatrix Potter
With Mr. Tod, the dirty rotter,
And Squirrel Nutkin, Pigling Bland,
And Mrs. Tiggy-Winkle and-
Just How The Camel Got His Hump,
And How the Monkey Lost His Rump,
And Mr. Toad, and bless my soul,
There's Mr. Rate and Mr. Mole-
Oh, books, what books they used to know,
Those children living long ago!
So please, oh please, we beg, we pray,
Go throw your TV set away,
And in its place you can install
A lovely bookshelf on the wall.
Then fill the shelves with lots of books,
Ignoring all the dirty looks,
The screams and yells, the bites and kicks,
And children hitting you with sticks-
Fear not, because we promise you
That, in about a week or two
Of having nothing else to do,
They'll now begin to feel the need
Of having something to read.
And once they start -- oh boy, oh boy!
You watch the slowly growing joy
That fills their hearts. They'll grow so keen
They'll wonder what they'd ever seen
In that ridiculous machine,
That nauseating, foul, unclean,
Repulsive television screen!
And later, each and every kid
Will love you more for what you did.

Cricket World Cup Qualifiers in UAE

2009-12-15T15:26:00.001+04:00

Interesting Language sites

2009-12-07T21:56:00.001+04:00

foreignlanguageexpertise.com

Babel Hut - talking about Anki SRS.

Assimil

A good day to be in SA?

2009-12-04T13:25:00.001+04:00

What a day it should be: England take on the Proteas with the real possibility of winning a ODI series and it's the draw for next year's world cup.

Pot 1 (seeds): South Africa, Brazil, Spain, Netherlands, Italy, Germany, Argentina, England

Pot 2 (Asia, Oceania and North/Central America): Japan, South Korea, North Korea, Australia, New Zealand, United States, Mexico, Honduras

Pot 3 (Africa and South America): Ivory Coast, Ghana, Cameroon, Nigeria, Algeria, Paraguay, Chile, Uruguay

Pot 4 (Europe): France, Portugal, Slovenia, Switzerland, Greece, Serbia, Denmark, Slovakia

England with Australia, Chile and Denmark would do for me.

I hope France draw Brazil and Portugal get Spain. My prediction for the Jules Rimet (based on current form and fitness) is Spain. Who knows by the time the WC comes around.

Omniglot?

2009-11-18T13:40:00.000+04:00

I just stumbled upon a fascinating site about multlingualism. Loadsa languages!

Interesting result

2009-11-16T13:25:00.001+04:00

So it really did turn out Egypt 2 Algeria 0. Play-off is on Wednesday in Sudan. The crowds were, I hear, delirious at the final whistle all around Al Ain. There's such a large population of Egyptians and Algerians.

We tend to brush all Arabs into one compartment when there are so many differences amongst them. Not least the language. I was introduced to the concept of Diglossia last week and found it fascinating.

Then looking into my own linguistic abilities (limited, for sure) it reads something like this:
L1 = Gujarati
L2 = English
L3 = Arabic
L4 = Urdu
L5 = Latin
L6 = French
L7 = German
L8 = Spanish

I need to brush up on all of these! It's a bit confused and I am sure I can improve all of them. I really should.

L1 - understand/speak, no ability to read/write. Yes, I am illiterate in my mother tongue!
L2 - full (ish?)
L3 - basic ability to read, limited ability to speak/understand, no ability to write. Revisiting because of living here although there's a limited usage in my environment.
L4 - understand/speak, limited reading, no writing
L5 - studied at school, mostly forgotten. Not spoken anyway.
L6 - studied at school and followed up with visits to France. Limited ability to read/write. Some ability to speak/understand.
L7 - studied at school. Very limited abilities now.
L8 - immersion living in Spain. Now, limited ability to read/write. Some ability to speak/understand.

There's a lot there to keep me busy!

West Coast of Bangladesh?

2009-11-03T20:20:00.002+04:00

I had a humbling visit to one of the workers' camps here in Al Ain, recently.

The camp has about 50 or 60 make-shift houses (portakabins?) each accomodating around 5 young men. Most seemed to be in their early 20's with just a few older and younger than that. Most of them are from different parts of Bangladesh, generally the cities. I'm not fully au fait with Bangali conurbations, but recognised Dakkah, Chittagong and Sylhet.

There is a large concrete building which houses a kitchen and also the wash room area. Showers don't have curtains so they use the traditional "lungi-on" shower method (the lungi is the lower skirt-like-garment, like a sarong). There are the old-style urinals (we call them "flat bogs") and ablution areas. Shaving takes place sat on an upturned plastic paint drum while looking into a mirror shard.

I was at the West Coast company camp, from where many of the labourers are detailed to the Al Ain Zoo (the ones in khaki uniforms, sweeping up in threes, one with the brush, the other two giving directions). Others, I noticed working at the Souq az-Zaafarana on Zayed al Awwal Street. They're the ones in blue uniforms with yellow trim.

I really felt for them when I was told their monthly salary can be around 600 dirhams. That's what someone pays for a pair of trainers back home! And I should take back my quip earlier about three men doing one job. It seems that it should rightly be a fair day's work for three unfair days' pay!

Gratitude and humility hit me about how fortunate I am that my great-grandfather and other relations were afforded the opportunity to emigrate to England, back in the fifties and early sixties. Had it not been so, I may have been in a similar position to these guys. Perhaps many of them are much more intelligent than me, but without the chances to gain a good education and develop to their utmost abilities, they are stuck doing menial labour.

Then, I am impressed at how cheerful and unshakeable they seem. When I arrived, on Friday afternoon, they were there playing cricket in the dust on their one day off per week. Watch out, Strauss and co... Then later, playing cards after the kitchen had churned out yet another same-o same-o curry (no that's not a speciality of southern India) and after the evening prayers. Alternatively, I reckon the camp could probably turn a profit renting out space to back-packing holiday-makers.

With education and development comes aspiration and expectation of something better. The dream! I'm sure the few dirhams tip we can give over on our trips out to the zoo or the mall is really appreciated (and is no skin off for us). Even otherwise, they seem contented, with board and lodgings all paid, a few dirhams for phone calls and fags (that's cigarettes, American friends), the rest is on its way back home to raise their next generation. Simple pleasures, an easy life and one third of a day's work for a the family back home.

Quran writing on Boy's Skin

2009-10-21T11:46:00.005+04:00

This article is making the rounds at the moment:

Quran on skin of 9-month-old

Regarding such "miracles", most people of different faiths and religions can point to similar incidents and then use them to support their claims to their faith being the correct one. Then it turns into a pointless "our miracle is bigger than your miracle" argument. I can think of obviously Turin shroud, weeping Madonna, the Hindu's weeping cow statue etc.

And it seems that those who believed before are strengthened in their belief through such a happening. Is this called Cognitive Assonance in psychological speak? Whereas, those who were sceptical remain or become more ardent in their scepticism.

In each case, cries of "Hoax!" ring out. Especially just after Balloon Boy has been found! And his was a case of parents seeking limelight. I do tend to agree that there is a lot of hoaxing going on.

Regarding this claim, I was surprised to see that the Sun should be the newspaper to print such a story (I am assuming it was in the print edition as well as the online edition). Perhaps it was with full expectation of the "Hoax!" "Bull!" "Muslims trying to take over the world!" responses (that have come in on the comments). Or perhaps the publication of the story in the Sun is the actual miracle! "It's unbelievable" "Murdock sees the light!"...

The interesting aspects were that initially, the parents were keeping this hidden; suggesting they did not seek publicity. It appears that the story has "got out" only after they took the child to the doctor. Allegations of child abuse don't seem fair either as again, the parents sought medical help.

The surprise is that doctors had no idea what it was; I guess ruling out (again) abuse or some form of tattooing (henna was suggested in the comments). Tattooing also seems to be ruled out by the marks disappearing after some time.

I am still sceptical. As can be seen from my effort to identify possible explanations above. I would also (as one comment mentioned) hope that some third party could witness what is going on. It is more than likely that the occurrences will cease at that time (surprise surprise).

But particularly, I would love to know which specific verses of Quran are appearing and what they mean. That might be the give-away of where they're coming from. It would also be interesting to know how much Arabic and Quran the parents (and other family) of this child know.

More generally I feel that such incidents should not be used to support (or replace) the existing source beliefs of the faith. Some people do over-emphasise them. As mentioned in the article, the boy has almost become a place of pilgrimage. Well, that's not right! Pilgrimage in Islam is to Mecca. That would be called a Bid'ah (Arabic for innovation) in Islamic tradition: the addition of extraneous acts or beliefs to the core original. It has happened so much in this and other religions. Sanctification, glorification, then idolisation and deification all stemming from it.

But the main thing I would wish for people to take from this (and any other supposed miracle) is to look into the source religion. At least after such a story, would it not be worth looking into the writings? If the Quran is "appearing" on the skin of a nine month old boy (or being put there by probably well-meaning others) would you not like to know what the Quran says?

Art Galleries

2009-10-18T22:29:00.001+04:00

Dubai
Sharjah

Interesting World Cup Qualifying Match

2009-10-13T12:56:00.001+04:00

It's almost the end of WC qualification but this match will get some of the other expats in UAE going...

A result to look out for - Egypt 2-0 Algeria. If that happens, the two teams will have an identical Group C record and will also be level on their head-to-head record
That raises the prospect of lots being drawn to decide who qualifies. The only alternative is if the two teams can agree, in conjunction with Fifa, dates for a deciding play-off. But they will have to move fast - the draw for the finals is made on 4 December!

Source - BBC Sport

Never Eat Shredded Wheat

2009-10-10T13:52:00.003+04:00

I hadn't heard that phrase in ages: Never Eat Shredded Wheat. Of course, it's a mnemonic for the directions of the compass (at least it is in the UK). I was giving directions to someone and asked if he knew which way was west in Al Ain, and that if you turn right you'd be facing north. He was bemused. However, I've found that the compass points in Al Ain are easy to find and help you orient (or should that be orientate?) yourself to figure out where you're going.

There is of course google maps for when you have access to the computer or GPS, but it's fairly straightforward using the compass points.

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First of all, if you're in Al Ain then Dubai is to the north; Abu Dhabi is to the west; Jebel Hafeet is in the south and Buraymi/Oman is to the east. If you see sign posts for these (usually it will be for Dubai or Abu Dhabi), you have some clue of which way you're facing. On most clear days (and nights) Jebel Hafeet can be seen from around Al Ain as well, unless you're in a built up area.

The other simple feature, pretty much anywhere you are in the city (or UAE for that matter) is the direction of Qibla. This is the direction towards Mecca, in which Muslims pray. It can be seen as the "sticky out bit" of any mosque you look at. In plan view, a mosque is usually rectangular with a semicircular extension (called the Mihrab) which protrudes out on one side; with the doors to the mosque usually on the opposite side. The Mihrab is where the Imaam would stand to lead the prayers and thus faces Qibla. Now, here in Al Ain (and the UAE), Qibla is almost due west. So, again, spotting a Masjid or even someone praying will give you your orientation.

Then just remember, right turns take you in this sequence: North --> East --> South --> West --> North... Never Eat Shredded Wheat! Unless you're going to Jebel Hafeet?

Word is getting the better of me!

2009-09-29T12:08:00.001+04:00

Death

2009-09-17T09:41:00.001+04:00

Sorry about the title, but there's no other way to put it.

This Ramadhaan, my wife has lost another close relative. That's 3 aunts in a very short space of time. Recently, my cousin, who's only a couple of years older than me passed on. A friend noted, after a loved one passed away, "I'm saying goodbye forever" to which I replied "rather try au revoir for a while". I think the comment may have been confusing, so I decided to write this.

Muslims (and quite a few other faiths) believe in the afterlife, the hereafter (in Arabic, Aakhirah). So when someone dies, we don't consider it as "The End". It's not "goodbye" neither is it "forever." A word used for death in Urdu is Intikaal, which (now that I know a few words of Arabic) comes from the Arabic for transfer, a change of location. In English we use similar phrases such as passed on, dearly departed, the other side.

So, when someone leaves this world, they are not "gone". They just moved.

And since we all have to die some day, we'll move too. So we can hope that there will be a reuniting with our loved one. They've gone ahead and we're on the same road, some distance behind. I liken it to a trip down the M1 to London in convoy, a few mates in each car. Me in my old banger and one of them in his nippy sports. After some time on the road, I call him to see how he's doing (hands-free of course) and he says he's already there. My reply would be "well you're quicker than me but I'll be there soon enough."

Also, as many friends, family, loved ones have gone ahead before, we can also hope that they will be (in some way) there to receive us when we get there. Each of us has more family that's gone ahead than is present here with us. We may have a family tree on earth but it's more like a forest on the other side.

Back in my Uni days, I had a friend who was studying Philosophy - poor sod, studying Philosophy AND having me as a friend. We'd stay up till all hours discussing these topics. His point of view was that religion is "invented" because of 2 things: love and death; a loved one dies, we find solace in religion, an afterlife, a future. I think the cause and effect are the wrong way around in this view. Allah who created us and included in our make-up (by Rimmel? Max Factor? Because you're worth it?) love and death also included the supporters for it, patience and hope.

Even when he's happy he looks miserable

2009-09-10T10:34:00.001+04:00

Eid

2009-09-09T12:55:00.001+04:00

Not long till Eid...

I have a good book on Sunnats from South Africa (published by Madina Publications in Batley) by Muft E. M. H. Salejee. It lists many sunnats for the day of Eid.

1 - To awaken earlier than usual

2 - To brush the teeth (miswak)

3 - To have a bath (ghusl)

4 - To be well dressed in an Islamic Manner

5 - To dress in one's best clothes (not necessarily new). Note about remaining within the modesty laws of Islam and not incurring debts etc for this.

6 - To use itr

7 - To perform the Eid Salaah in an Eid Musallah (open ground - aka Eidgah)

8 - To avoid eating before the Eid Salaah of Eid ul Adha (Bakra Eid) and to eat an odd number of dates (or something sweet) before salaat on Eid ul Fitr

9 - To go to the place of salaat early

10 - To walk to the place

11 - To read takbeer on the way, aloud on Eid ul Adha and quietly on Eid ul Fitr

12 - To use different routes on the way and on the way back

13 - To frequently recite takbeer

14 - To have Eid ul Fitr salaah late and Eid ul Adha salaah early

15 - To read 2 rakaat salat without azaan or iqamah

16 - It is forbidden to perform nafl prayer in the eidgah either before or after Eid salaah

17 - To perform 2 rakaat nafl on reaching home

Ramadhan Highway code

2009-09-07T12:16:00.001+04:00

This is a nice way to be reminded about what to do in Ramadhan.

But then, after I thought about it, I realised that (apart from the not eating bit) the rest is what we should be doing the whole year round.

Isn't it amazing that just stopping from satisfying our basic needs for a few hours helps us so much in achieving greater spiritual heights?

At the same time, the fact that everyone around is also doing the same also makes it easier. Try walking down Oxford Street when it feels like everyone else is going the other way. Still, in places where few are following Ramadhan (many British neighbourhoods, for example) we still seem to manage.

Annual Iftar at Belmarsh Prison 2009 (Supported by Tayyibun Institute)

2009-08-31T10:51:00.001+04:00



Annual Belmarsh Iftar at HMP Belmarsh 2009 *Solidarity & Remembrance of Muslim Prisoners Worldwide* Organised by the Muslim Prisoners Support Group (MPSG) and the Woolwich Dawah Network Supported by the Tayyibun Institute, Helping Households Under Great Stress (HHUGS) and the Hittin Institute 8 Years on still there is little respite for the real victims of the War on Terror. This event provides an opportunity to remember the victims of illegal rendition detainment and torture, control orders, SIAC court rulings and all other measures imposed to unlawfully strip Muslim prisoners in the UK and abroad of their dignity, freedom and liberties- 'guilty' either by association/ circumstance or for expressing an opinion/ voicing openly an authenticated article of faith. This Iftar has been arranged to remember the plight of these prisoners and their families. Guest Speakers: * Imam Shakeel Begg (Lewisham Islamic Centre) * Ustadh Uthman Lateef (Hittin Institute) * Ex-Detainees * Family members and many more Inshaa Allaah Featuring: - Qur'an Recitation - Full Segregation - Du'aa Qunoot - Poetry reading from children of the imprisoned - Statements from representatives of Detainees and Muslim Prisoners - Prayers to be performed on site Date: Sunday 6th September 2009 Time: 3.00- 8.30pm Venue: Outside Belmarsh Prison HMP Belmarsh Western Way Thamesmead SE28 0EB Transport: Rail: Plumstead Station, Underground: North Greenwich, DLR: Woolwich Arsenal, Buses: 244 and 380 Note: Iftar arrangements include Dates, Milk and cooked meals for up to 300 attendees. - Please bring appropriate clothing in case of weather change.

Ramadhân: Have You Got What It Takes?

2009-08-24T12:09:00.000+04:00

Ramadhân: Have You Got What It Takes?

By Abu Eesa Niamatullah

There are things in life which are not very important, those which are quite important and then those things which are absolutely vital for our collective well-being.

Let this be a reminder to me and anyone else who wishes to read on – there is simply nothing more vital for us in our very short and limited lives than to take absolute maximum benefit from the blessed month of Ramadhân.

The really interesting thing about the statement of Allah, the Most High:

"So remind (them), for indeed the reminder benefits those who have faith," [Al-Qur'ân 51:55]

is that those who have the pure characteristics of faith do indeed benefit, even though human nature by itself would seem to oppose that. Isn't that sadly true? When someone believes they know what to do, they don't necessarily appreciate being told again how to do it. If someone believes that they've heard everything they need to hear, it takes a seriously patient and magnanimous person to sit there and hear it again.

By now we've certainly heard all the Prophetic narrations on the blessings of this very special time; a time in which our righteous ones delight as the gates of Paradise are flung open, and in which our sinful ones breathe a sigh of relief and take time to reflect as the gates of Hell are locked up.

So at this moment of clarity, where the stomachs, hearts, eyes, ears, tongue and mind are all enjoying their greatest moment of purity, let us all try and make sure that we profit from the following points gleaned from the advice of our Pious Predecessors ...

1. Make sure that this blessed month becomes a period of accounting for your actions, a revision of your daily routine, an opportunity for the betterment of your life for all your years to come. To enter Ramadhân not believing it to be so will be a total loss. You've actually made it all the way here now, so let's reap the harvest! Think about all those who were aiming for this month but found a dark grave instead. Reflect on all those who woke in the morning but found that their evenings never materialised.

Consider for just a second as our scholars said: if you can't change your ways and gain at such a blessed time then at what time will you change?!

2. Try to make sure you perform all of the tarâwîh prayers in congregation for the Prophet, peace be upon him, said:

"Whoever prays with the Imam until he leaves, it is written for him that he prayed the entire night."

3. Do not be wasteful or extravagant with your wealth, for not only is that impermissible, but you reduce the opportunities of giving more in charity for which you could be rewarded for. They said about the Prophet, peace be upon him, that he gave in charity especially during Ramadhân like the one who didn't fear or even recognise poverty.

4. Commit yourself to continue after Ramadhân that which you have prepared yourself to do during Ramadhân. The salaf would say:

"The sign of one's fasting being accepted from him in Ramadhân is the continuation of his good actions and character after Ramadhân."

5. Remember: this is a month of worship and hence action, not lethargy and sleeping. This is even more relevant here in the West considering winter is so close with its short days and long nights. It is well known from the Companions, in emulation of the Prophet, upon whom be peace, that they used to say:

"Reap the benefit of winter by fasting its days and standing (in prayer) during the nights."

6. Make your tongue habitual in the dhikr of Allah so that you don't become from those:

" ... who do not remember Allah except little."

7. When you feel the pangs of hunger, just remember how weak you actually are, how dependent you are upon food and other such necessities from the immense blessings of Allah, may He be glorified.

8. Make a concerted effort to permanently leave that which doesn't benefit you, but rather causes you harm. This is even more so when you are fasting. Maymûn used to say:

"The weakest of fasts is that in which only food and drink is left out."

9. Remember: your actions are a trust from Allah so audit yourself like any successful company does; have you performed and fulfilled your deeds as is deserving of them? This obviously applies to all our actions such as prayer, dhikr, manners but particularly fasting. Ibn Rajab, may Allah have mercy upon him, said:

"Our fasts need istighfâr to make up for their deficiencies, and good deeds to intercede for them."

10. Hasten to seek forgiveness from those whom you have oppressed in any way, before they take from your (very few) good deeds. Don't forget, the greatest oppressive tool is the tongue so tether it as strongly as possible. Sha'bi narrated that 'Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, said:

"Fasting is not just refraining from food and drink, but refraining from lying, falsehood, backbiting and swearing (by Allah)."

Abu al-'Âliyah, may Allah have mercy upon him, used to say:

"The fasting one is in a continual state of worship until he says about another person that which they would not like to hear."

11. Strive to feed the fasting one so that you can obtain a reward equal to his. Ibn 'Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, used to always break his fast sharing with the poor; if any of his family tried to prevent him from that, he would refuse to spend the night with them. It was also reported from him that whenever someone would come to him asking for food, he would give them his share and then return home to find his family had eaten what was left of food in his house. He would not let on and would end his fasting day without eating anything.

12. Know that Allah is the Most Generous and that He is the Most Merciful. He accepts the repentance of the penitent, more so than ever at such a special time.

13. If you have committed a sin or done something wrong which Allah, may He be glorified, has concealed for you from the people, know that this is an opportunity for you to seek repentance for those mistakes. Hasten to seek forgiveness and make sure that you do not return back to that sin.

14. Try to increase your knowledge of the explanation of the Qur'ân (tafsîr), the narrations of the Messenger, his biography (sîrah), and the principles of our religion – to seek such sacred knowledge is one of the highest forms of worship.

15. Stay away from such company and people which don't benefit you; try to accompany righteous good folk as much as you can. Good people always spread their blessings to others.

16. Going significantly early to the Mosques is a sign of great love and desire to please Allah; a sign that you are in need of him at all times, not just those times in which all the congregation are together. Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, said:

"The Companions would often spend much of their fast in the Mosque so as to purify it (i.e. purify the fast itself from useless talk, gossip, backbiting etc)."

17. Pay attention to those who are under your authority such as your family, guiding them to that which will benefit them in their dîn, for they will far more willingly take their example from you than from other people.

18. Do not go to extremes by preparing many different dishes for the iftâr meal. This leaves the women of the house no opportunity to benefit during the daytime of Ramadhân such as reciting the Qur'ân etc., especially if they are just busy cooking all day.

19. Reduce the amount of time you spend shopping in the night-time during Ramadhân, especially the last ten nights. This will prevent you wasting your time at such a precious and blessed period of your life.

20. Strive to spend these last ten special nights of Ramadhân standing in prayer. Remember: there is one particular night amongst these ten, known as laylat al-qadr which is in fact greater than a thousand months of worship. Surely to hit the jackpot on such a night is beyond our wildest dreams yet it is a jackpot available to everyone with no need to purchase a ticket and no need to take any risk – that's gambling dîn style.

21. Don't forget that 'Eid is a special day of thanksgiving to our Lord, so don't make it a day where you lose control of yourself, wasting all the good works of your heart and soul as it kept your desires in check for the entire month.

22. Set aside for yourself, even but for a small time, a period of isolation in the mosque known as i'tikâf – you will probably never enjoy such an intensely beneficial period for your soul to reflect upon how it is so cultured by day-to-day life in the 21st Century. This period of respite for the heart, mind and soul will allow you to replenish your vital organs with what they really need – the elixir of life which is nothing other than to be immersed in the worship of Allah, the Most Exalted.

23. On the festive day of 'Eid as you enjoy yourself with your family, take a brief moment to remember all those brothers and sisters of ours who are orphans, stricken by poverty, famine and war. Know that if you have the ability to make a difference, hasten to such an excellent deed; if you are unable, do not forget to thank Allah for His unlimited favours He bestows upon us.

24. Set aside for yourself regular days of fasting throughout the year – don't just make your relationship with fasting limited to Ramadhân only. Now that you have seen the rewards on offer for the fasting one, his special entrance of ar-rayyân in Paradise, his supplication which is not rejected, his closeness to his Lord during his fast, his moment of joy as he breaks it, his increased ability to refrain from the bad and embrace the good – now that you've actualised these benefits, carry them over to the six days of Shawwâl just after Ramadhân which is equivalent to fasting the entire year! Don't forget also the middle three 'bright' days of every month, Mondays and Thursdays when our actions are presented to our Lord, as well as a host of other special occasions to double up from such as the Days of 'Arafah, Tâsû'ah, 'Âshûrâ' etc.

25. Finally, reflect upon your overall condition; make an audit of all your daily affairs so that you can identify areas for improvement and rectification. These will include: sticking to the congregational prayers, paying zakât fully and on time, maintaining your family ties, being honourable with the parents, being mindful of your neighbours, rectifying old feuds and problems between previous friends and colleagues, cutting out extravagance and the wasting of wealth, culturing and educating those under your guardianship, being concerned with the affairs of your fellow Muslim brothers and sisters around the world, delighting in and then acting upon sincere advice, protecting oneself for riyâ' (showing off), loving for your brother that which you love for yourself, not allowing yourself to fall into the trap of backbiting others. Carry on reciting the Qur'ân and reflecting deeply upon its meanings and last but certainly not least, humble yourself as you listen to His Words being recited.

The list could simply go on and on – surely there are enough points here to make even the most heedless one reflect upon their state and consider changing their actions for the better.

O Allah, give us the ability and strength to make this Ramadhân our Ramadhân, a time for change and maturity, a time for quality and success, amîn.

May the Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon His Beloved Messenger, his family and all those who follow in his footsteps until the Final Day.

Nice Nasheed

2009-08-06T15:06:00.001+04:00

I was in Blackburn recently and heard this young man recite nasheeds.

I'm not keen on urdu 'naat' but this guy won me over...

There must be something wrong

2009-06-09T15:36:00.001+04:00

Amazing statistic I just heard:

Most common causes of death in women aged 15 to 44 globally:

1 - Aids/HIV
2 - TB
3 - Suicide

And then I discover that suicide is number 2 in the UK.

Why are so many (young) women committing suicide????

(Source: World Health Organisation)

Sharjah Maritime Museum

2009-06-01T13:05:00.001+04:00

Sharjah's NEW Maritime Museum (next to Sharjah Aquarium) opens to public JUNE 8th!

Visit for free for 2 weeks from opening date.

Bad Times Boot Camp

2009-05-26T20:58:00.001+04:00

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/business/8058341.stm

http://www.badtimesbootcamp.com/

Far too long

2009-05-25T01:21:00.001+04:00

It's been far too long. Haven't been writing much here. Just posting the odd picture which caught my eye.

I just read something about Personal Growth Maps on Zen Habits which reminded me of my 7 (what a coincidence) growth habits. Quite similar as well. I was amazed.

Growth Map from Haider al Mosawi:
(1) Spiritual
(2) Intellectual
(3) Psychological
(4) Social
(5) Professional
(6) Recreational
(7) Physical

And my short list:

Sp - Spiritual
So - Social
E - Emotional
F - Financial
L - Logical/Learning
C - Creative
P - Physical

Search "How are you" on the blog to find out more. It actually came out with some quite interesting old posts from a couple of years back as well.

Moon and Star on Earth

2009-05-11T16:33:00.001+04:00

White Gold Mercedes

2009-02-27T22:23:00.001+04:00

Good Restaurant Guide

2008-12-30T10:57:00.002+04:00

Al Ain has very few good restaurants. There are of course the 5 star hotels but as these serve alcohol and don't offer privacy, they aren't very well suited to Islamic eating. A great shame in a Muslim country...

There are of course, the mall food courts (at Al Ain and Al Jimi malls) but these leave a lot to be desired. The crowds, the noise. On the plus side, at least the malls have implemented No Smoking so the air is breathable and there is a good variety: Chinese, Indian (at Al Jimi mall), Shaami (Arabic), Iranian (at Al Ain mall) plus the usual suspects of burgers and fried chicken.

In terms of good restaurants, here are my recommendations:

Shaami (West-Arabic) food. This is a staple in this part of the world. Al Mallah near the Jebel Roundabout, heading towards Diwan and Bayt-us-Shaami, also at Jebel Roundabout, heading towards it from the hospital. Bayt-us-Shaami has a good outdoor eating space with separate areas for men-only or families.

Al Daar, opposite the Zayed library offers a good value buffet arabic lunch and a la carte for the evenings. I think they've been refurbished recently but I haven't been in to check it out.

For traditional local arabic flavours, there is Al Yaher restaurant, near the Jahli park. Seating on the floor, shared platters. A very different vibe. But the last time I checked their family facilities, they left a lot to be desired.

As for Indian, on recommendation I checked out Aladdin restaurant near the Murabbaa roundabout in town, opposite the police station. A lot of roadworks there at the moment so a bit difficult to get to, but the food and service were good. They also cover a Chinese menu. There are private rooms for families.

The other restaurant that covers a varied menu of Shaami, Iranian and basic Italian dishes is Al Diwan, in the main town area, alongside the Union National bank. Again, there are private rooms. Shame about the muzak.

Slightly more expensive (about 50-100 dirhams a head) is the Ponderosa / Caravan buffet and brasserie in Al Ain mall. It has a range of dishes and Caravan specialises in steak. A family area is cordoned off.

A new sandwich and pasta grill, Cosi, which opened at Al Jimi mall, recently. It's like a coffee shop that does food. The food looks good: soups, salads, pastas and desserts. It's opposite the Home Centre.

I guess I should mention Chili's in Al Jimi mall. Probably the only place in the city that does good (meaty) burgers. But, in general I'm not so impressed. It's too noisy. The food is very salty. And quite pricey. The last time we were there, with visitors, we left without eating as the speed of service was so bad.

Lastly, I am told that the 4 star hotel City Seasons has a restaurant that is open to the public. It is alcohol-free. You can expect it to be at the high-price end. I haven't tried it, but it may be one to consider if you have guests.

On the other end of the financial spectrum are some excellent value "basic" eateries catering for the "bachelor" workers, here. Kebabs, curries, tandoori chicken for a few dirhams. Often crowded. If a quick bite is all that's required, you can't go wrong with an omelette paratha sandwich for 3 dirhams!

Carpets

2008-12-14T14:53:00.001+04:00

http://www.shahcarpets.com/

Mental Age of an Eleven-Year-Old

2008-12-12T08:29:00.001+04:00

I just took a quiz with questions from the 11 plus.

I was very fortunate to have been able to pass that at the time and thus get a relatively good education.

Well, some of the brain cells are still there! I managed to get full marks on the quiz!

Find it here, if you want to try... My picture gives you some answers too!
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/magazine/7773974.stm

EID MUBARAK

2008-12-09T18:59:00.001+04:00

Stratford Road, Sparkhill, Birmingham, England.

Eid Mubarak everyone!

--
Mohammed

Test Cricket coming to Abu Dhabi

2008-12-07T14:32:00.001+04:00

I was at the masjid on Friday and after the prayers the (poorly amplified) voice of the Imaam said something about prayers at 8am at the Eid prayer place.

What with my limited Arabic and the lack of a functional microphone, I assumed he was talking about the Eid prayer as it is Eid tomorrow (Monday). 8am?, I thought. Bit late that. After all, there are quadrupeds to be united with their maker. Need to get an early start...

It turns out that the Imaam was actually talking about Salaat-ul-Istisqaah, the prayer for rain. This was being held on Saturday morning, probably, I guess, because the first 10 days of the month of Pilgrimage (Dhu-al-Hijjah) are upon us and these are considered the holiest days of the year. This compared with the last 10 nights of Ramadhan which are considered the holiest nights of the year.

So, let's get this straight. There are prayers for rain taking place at the Eid prayer place, a couple of days before the Eid prayer takes place at the same place? The Eid "Musallah" is an outdoor venue, with outdoor flooring, i.e., sand. Rain now means outdoor flooring will be mud!

Well, the prayers were answered. But the rain falls mainly outside Al Ain.

The England test cricket team arrived in Abu Dhabi on Saturday. This was either to be a training session in preparation for the forthcoming test series in India. The team had returned to England after the devastation in Bombay (yes, I still call it Bombay and not Mumbai, and no I won't talk about the idiots who were responsible) and came back here to warm up and await security reports to decide if they can play the two test series. If it wasn't considered safe, the Abu Dhabi cricket authorities offered the stadium there as a neutral host. Fantastic! The potential for test cricket just up the road!

So, there's me quite hoping the security report says "better not go, just to be on the safe side" and the Abu Dhabi offer gets taken up. I've even got the hols to make a trip up.

In the end, no matter what the report says... It's been raining in Abu Dhabi! England's training had to be canceled. Did they bring Manchester with them? Or should I go and have a word with our Imaam? Perhaps there is a prayer for positive security reports so at least we get some play somewhere.

Is it England? Or UK? Or Britain?

2008-11-26T17:26:00.003+04:00

This is something that regularly gets me going. Recently, I read a few rants about keeping England English and such (I think you get the picture).

Well, first of all - reasons I think that I am English:
- I was born in England
- I support England in the cricket (the famous Tebbitt Test), football and rugby (and any other sports I can get "into"). Particularly strong in my memory are (in no particular order): Gazza's goal against Scotland; Bob Willis taking 8-fer against the Aussies, 5-1 against Germany...
- I consider England as home, and miss home terribly at times
- My first language is English
- I have lived in England for almost all of my life, apart from the last 3 years in the UAE and a few months in Spain as a student
- I am an expat from England living abroad at the moment
- My parents are in England as we speak. Probably sitting comfortably on their new G-Plan sofa.
- Most of the above applies to my wife (apart, possibly from the rugby - she couldn't care an up-and-under about that)
- Of my grandparents and great-grandparents (all of whom are deceased), 4 are laid to rest in England. That (I think) is a third. Of the rest, I only met one.
- I can quote the "2B or not 2B" (that is the pencil) verbatim from Shakespeare. Perhaps that just makes me sad, rather than English. I even know what verbatim means. Even that is being taken out of city council literature because it is too "hard" for people to understand!
- I love Fish and Chips (not so keen on the country's favourite dish these days - Chicken Tikka Masala)
- I listen to Radio 4

Anyway, all sounds a bit defensive doesn't it. Perhaps the rants have ruffled my not-so-Red-White-and-Blue feathers.

What about reasons I am not (considered) English:
- My name
- Skin colour - I think this is becoming less of an issue
- Religion - on the other hand, it seems that this is where the issue actually lies
- Mother tongue
- Errrm...
- I listen to Radio 4?

What about the cars I've owned - what do they say? My first was a Mini - not quite stereotypical. But hey! There's a Nissan and a couple of Hondas in there too!! I'm a butt-butt-ding-ding after all!

But wait! Then - why is my pseudonym on here "Mohammed UK" and not "Mohammed England" and why am I often classifying myself as "British" as distinct from (not opposed to) English. Come to think of it, a comment I read recently also mentioned, there is no option for "English" on most drop-down list internet forms. Nationality - British; Nation - United Kingdom. Check the Emirates ID card website - if you can actually get onto the Arriva-Arriva-Andale-Andale "Slowy-Gonzales" thing. Why have Britain and United Kingdom become synonymous, when they are different? And UK with England, much to the chagrin of the Welsh and Scots?

(Did I just use "chagrin" in a blog post?)

Now, I'm confused. It seems sometimes England/GB/UK are also. We can't put up a Team GB football squad for the 2012 Olympics in LONDON, for starters. The PM is a Scot, but the Scots have their own parliament.

And is UK really a nation? It is for the Eurovision Song Fixfest.

Help! (I need somebody, help... - as Ravi Shankar once put it).

My response to the question "Where are you from?" used to be "Britain" or "Biritaniya" (which got confused with Mauritania on occasion). However, nowadays, I have noticed that the answer is more often "England!" Perhaps not with the puffed-up pride of the ultimate primordial, Pims-supping Anglo-Saxon, but definitely not with the same shame or guilt that was ever-present whilst in Spain (early 90s), when England was infamous for hooliganism and skinheads.

Anyway, as Marcus Brigstocke puts it "There are more of us overseas than there are of them here, so - Kerching! We've won!" (I consider myself to be "one of us overseas").

Vocablueary

2008-11-24T11:52:00.002+04:00

With the resignation of Russell Brand recently, we were talking about the use of profanities in life and in comedy. Too bad. So sad. Bye bye.

I for one don't rate Brand as a comedian. He relies far too much on puerile profanity for my liking. Perhaps, he is aiming at a schoolboy audience. But even they, I think, can tell the difference between making a joke and just using expletives.

I thought that excessive use of vulgar language was just a sign of a poor vocabulary. There was no other way for them to express themselves than to "mouth off". It seems that Clive James has come to the same conclusion in his article.

My cars

2008-11-18T12:53:00.004+04:00

A quick trip down memory lane... The loves of my life!

Mini Cooper (1986 plate)
Orange - crashed it into a tree outside my Uncle's house.

Mitsubishi Lancer (1985 plate)
Silver. Nice car!

Ford Sierra (1985 plate)
Silver

Ford Orion (1986?)
Blue - lovely car. Got stolen as well! But I got it back...

Nissan Sunny - Black
Imported Japanese car. Sold it for pennies.

Ford Mondeo - Dark Blue
Didn't last long.

Hyundai Galloper 4x4 (1999) Silver and Bronze
Still going strong. 2 doors. Good fun!

Honda Accord (1996) - Black, Leather, Super quick.

Honda Accord (yes another one) - Green 2001 Estate. Came in handy over the summer.

Bit miffed

2008-11-18T12:42:00.001+04:00

I have to say that I am a bit miffed that England can't manage to bat for 50 overs.

So much for that promise!

2008-11-11T11:43:00.001+04:00

So much for me submitting more posts to the blog now! I've just been so busy.

Quite apt that I should see this joke/comment this morning (modified slightly):

The Imaam waited in line to have his car filled with fuel just before a long Eid weekend.

The attendant worked quickly, but there were SOOO many cars ahead of him!

Finally, the attendant motioned him toward a vacant pump. "Sheikh," said the young man, "I'm so sorry about the delay. It seems as if everyone waits until the last minute to get ready for a long trip."

The Imaam began to cry, "I know what you mean..."

This is a Test

2008-11-05T12:45:00.001+04:00

I finally read about publishing blog posts directly from email... Sounds nifty! I had to give it a go...

--
Mohammed UK

What's that smell?

2008-10-22T13:23:00.003+04:00

Well, we had the pest control guys around this week to help with the (what I consider a small) insect problem.

Very good - they came the very next morning. And there was me hoping for a little lie in. They were also very speedy around the apartment in a jiffy. He managed to spray me as well into the bargain. Or was it perhaps a sideways attack to suggest that I am the pest?

As a result I went to work with the whiff of insecticide on my foot. The new fragrance from Le Jardin de Al Ain Factor - Eau de Pest Controlle.

Places NOT to visit

2008-10-20T15:23:00.001+04:00

And this one goes out to all those who think:

Egypt
Dubai
London (in the Summer)
Singapore

are worth visiting...

Credit Crunch...

2008-10-18T17:13:00.003+04:00

Yes. I had to comment about the credit crunch (and the islamic solutions to such situations).

An article appeared on the BBC website today on the topic.

It was interesting to hear the speech of the imam and the recitation of the Qur'an during the Friday prayer relating to the topic:

002.275 Those who devour usury will not stand except as stand one whom the Evil one by his touch Hath driven to madness. That is because they say: "Trade is like usury," but Allah hath permitted trade and forbidden usury. Those who after receiving direction from their Lord, desist, shall be pardoned for the past; their case is for Allah (to judge); but those who repeat (The offence) are companions of the Fire: They will abide therein (for ever).

002.276 Allah will deprive usury of all blessing, but will give increase for deeds of charity: For He loveth not creatures ungrateful and wicked.

002.277 Those who believe, and do deeds of righteousness, and establish regular prayers and regular charity, will have their reward with their Lord: on them shall be no fear, nor shall they grieve.

002.278 O ye who believe! Fear Allah, and give up what remains of your demand for usury, if ye are indeed believers.

002.279 If ye do it not, Take notice of war from Allah and His Messenger: But if ye turn back, ye shall have your capital sums: Deal not unjustly, and ye shall not be dealt with unjustly.

002.280 If the debtor is in a difficulty, grant him time Till it is easy for him to repay. But if ye remit it by way of charity, that is best for you if ye only knew.

Update (28 October)
This from Australia

Waste Not

2008-09-29T13:05:00.002+04:00

When it came to caring for the environment, my gran took the green-biscuit. The tradition of holding onto anything which had even the slightest iota of coming in useful in the future was strong with her. My parents still have that trait. It is very very difficult for them to let go of things which really are just "clutter" and unlikely to ever be used in the future. Waste-not want-not.

An interesting article talked about the perceived value of our own possessions being greater than their real worth. So, we hoard. In those days (and for my gran) they lived in a time of minimal possessions. Tough times. Minimal income. Make do and mend was the motto. Reuse was the priority.

One time dad ordered MacDonalds Fillet of Fish as a treat for the whole family and gran, who was visiting England, thought the polystyrene boxes were so practical that they should be stored for future use. The "disposable" age was not for her. We took the trouble of annoying her more by lining up and then smashing the boxes in front of her before we disposed of them.

I remember Ben Elton said "disposable means 'dispose of ourselves'". We really are the ones tending towards destruction. Waste must be at an all time high as the materialistic individualistic "dream" spreads to all corners of the world. Including India, where my gran is laid to rest.

There must be a better way! I think gran pretty much had it right.

And the rich get richer. The poor get poorer. Home Economics is now needed for the youngest. Both partners working full-time, no time for raising kids, not enough to make ends meet. Food prices doubling.

There must be a better way!

- Reuse
- Recycle
- buy local
- buy according to need (not wish list). Shopping lists help.
- Pass unused things onto those who could use them
- simplify your life. Declutter. Then pass on the unused stuff.

Shops:
- Reduce stocks (especially of useless, tacky and overpriced junk!)
- Reduce variety. It doesn't reduce choice really. A few options in each category are surely enough.
- Reduce waste.
- Reduce packaging.
- Pass on food close to sell by dates to those in need.
- Buy local.

Amazing Ramadhan pictures

2008-09-28T15:21:00.000+04:00

HERE are some great shots from around the world exploring the traditions of Ramadhan.

My sisters Top 10 in (and around) Al Ain

2008-06-02T09:45:00.002+04:00

Al Ain Palace Museum especially the big pots in the kitchen
Al Ain Milk ("Red Top", although not as good as Sainsbury's)
Dipping my feet in the Green Mubazzarah streams (but not the pool)
Those colourful windmill things - that have now gone - from the road leading to Mubazzarah (I was gutted when they disappeared)
Jebel Hafeet
Al Safa Mall (near Al Jimi Mall)
Coffee Pot Roundabout at Al Foah, on the way into Al Ain from Dubai
Al Jimi Mall
Zoo Roundabout
Dishdash'ed men in dodgy footwear, eating hamburgers

FOR MEN TO READ & PUT INTO PRACTICE AND SISTERS TO SHOW TO THEIR HUSBANDS

2008-04-29T17:19:00.002+04:00

1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasulullah -sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2. Use the cutest names for your wife. Rasul Allah-sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

3. Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives - radi Allahu 'anhunn. It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered. He would gently advise them to correct their ways.

5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.

6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her!

7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

8. Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah - radi Allahu 'anha - was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would race his wife Aisha - radi Allahu 'anha - in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam: 'The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.' Try to be the best! Never forget to make Dua to Allah azza wa jall to make your marriage successful. And Allah ta'ala knows best !!.

The Messenger of Allah, Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wa-allehe wa-sallam) said 'Pass on knowledge from me even if it is only one verse'.

Bumper Stickers

2008-04-01T16:11:00.000+04:00

One of the nice things about living in Al Ain (as a Muslim) is seeing small signs all over the place reminding one about the remembrance of Allah. There are small stickers placed along roads and at junctions saying "Alhudolillah" or "SubhanAllah" which at least semi-consciously makes one remember the words and Allah.

Even nicer, there are many cars which have logos and stickers on the back. Some state "Laa ilaha ilallah Muhammad ar Rasool ullah" while others say "La tansa thikrullah!" (don't forget to remember Allah!)

The best sign that I think I have seen, was on the back of a flash white car: "Ihfathillaha yahfathak!" (Look after your duty to Allah, He will look after you)

Pledge of Allegiance?

2008-03-19T01:44:00.002+04:00

I saw this and thought I would post it here.

Some honest. Some funny. Some serious.

Feel free to add your own ideas in the comments.

For me:
Serious side:
I pledge to uphold the laws of the land. To help my fellow citizens whenever possible. To be courteous and generous to visitors.

Funny side:
I pledge to expect rain, traffic, roadworks, expensive public transport and a general dumbing down in the media and education system. I pledge to complain about changing my clocks forward or backwards by an hour every six months, taxes and how badly we do at sports.

Cookery

2008-03-09T22:45:00.000+04:00

These days, I don't have much of an opportunity to cook. I can just manage some basic recipes. My brother and father are similar in this regard although we compare very favourably with other men from a similar heritage who would not know how to boil an egg.

I owe most of my limited culinary skill to my sister who, for example, taught me that the three main ingredients required for a great curry begin with G - ginger, garlic and green chillies. Mix that with any meat, poultry or vegetable and you're good to go.

She taught me that you deep-fry samosas. She made sure that I lowered them into the oil, rather than throwing them in and splashing oil everywhere. I lowered one in, not realising that I had lowered my hand in with it! Amazingly there was no harm done to my hand!

On another occasion, I remember returning home from school one day, absolutely famished. There was no-one home, so I decided to fix myself a snack. I was barefoot in the kitchen when I found some samosas in the freezer (home-made, not shop-bought) and decided to fry them up. As I had been taught previously, samosas are deep-fried. I however decided to go for the all-new shallow-fry approach.

We had an electric, halogen-light powered stove in those days. While frying the samosas I tried to flip them and I spilt hot oil onto one of my still bare feet. In shock, I jumped, knocked the frying pan off the stove and onto the floor. Now there was boiling hot oil (and half cooked indian pastry delights) all over the floor. I had to save my toes! I jumped in the air to avoid the hot floor and managed to find a few square centimetres of unroasted floor-tile. This however made me lose my balance and the only place I could put my hand to steady myself was back onto the halogen-light at a steady 240 degrees. I realised what was about to happen and just managed to turn my right hand over so the back of my hand landed first and was done to a crisp.

Once, balanced I could now feel the heat on the foot that was first hit. I ran over to the sink put the cold water on full blast and put my foot and hand under the tap for some mighty relief.

I haven't cooked samosas since that day.

What a personal disaster

2008-02-26T17:28:00.003+04:00

This list of put-downs from the Beeb brought back some memories! I still remember the Mary Whitehouse Experience and there were so many catchphrases in that show:

The gardening presenter: Brrrr. It's a bit nippy out.
The nervous daytime presenter: It's getting a bit tricky!
The dirty old man: Milky milky
The dad: It's got a good beat
Ray (the man who said everything in a sarcastic tone of voice) : What a personal disaster
The professors on "History Today" (after mentioning something disgusting) : That's you that is.

I thought this was funny

2008-02-20T17:03:00.003+04:00

Anyway:

I do know how to tie a turban (Amaamah).
Falafel are quite nice. My wife likes them more than me, though.
Beards.
No gas station job here, either! Haberdashery was my first job. What did I do to deserve that?
I have ridden a camel (for the first time just a couple of days ago!)
I do live in the desert.
My name's Mohammed, too!

I think this guy should take a chill pill.

UAE Teams

2008-02-19T14:00:00.001+04:00

Just been chatting about football here in the UAE with some Emirati fellows. I only really knew of Al Ain football team, but they gave me a quick rundown (with the colours they wear, to help me figure it out) :

Purple - Al Ain
Orange - Ajman
Blue - An Nasr (Dubai)
Black/White - Al Jazeera (Abu Dhabi)
White - Sharjah
Yellow - Al Wasl (Dubai)
Red - Al Ahli (Dubai)
Green - Shabaab
Mauve - Al Wahda (Abu Dhabi)

Hayaat-us-Sahaabah

2008-01-30T11:04:00.000+04:00

At last! Thanks to my mum and dad's visit to South Africa, I have managed to get hold of a copy of a translation of Hayaat-us-Sahaabah (the lives of the companions of the Prophet).

The original book is in Arabic. I had a previous translation which was three super-thick volumes in very difficult to read English. I am quite pedantic about English quality and struggled to get into those tomes. However, although this new translation still has errors, it is much more readable.

There are some wonderful stories about the companions of the Prophet, the lives they led and the struggles and sacrifices they went through.

The first chapters of the book are:

The invitation (Dawah) given by the Prophet and the companions toward Islam
The sacrifices (Mujahidah) endured when calling towards Islam
The pledges of allegiance (Bay'ah) made by the companions to the Prophet and then to later leaders
Migrating (Hijrah) for the sake of Allah
Helping (Nusrah) for the sake of Allah

It is fascinating stuff. I hope to post some of the stories (in brief) here in the future.

Flyer

2008-01-27T14:00:00.000+04:00

Well. I had a request from Delaware, USA, to use the picture of the "Andalus" masjid that I had posted here. A flyer has been prepared (as shown) for a gathering there.
More information here.

This certainly is a boost for my drive to be more creative!

How are you? Take Two.

2007-12-31T15:08:00.000+04:00

So here they are in all their glory:

Sp - Spiritual
So - Social
E - Emotional
F - Financial
L - Logical/Learning
C - Creative
P - Physical

How are you?

The End of 2007

2007-12-31T14:47:00.000+04:00

It has been a long time for me to write anything up here. With Eid and winter vacations, we've been quite busy.

That is actually just the excuse. If anything, I had reached a point of "why am I writing this stuff anyway?"

I do have lots of time available and there are always ideas and topics that I want to write about. Mostly mundane, I grant you.

A thought hit me that my 6 axis summariser of "where I am" was missing something. And this may be the reason for neglecting the blog and all my millions of readers around the world. That is there was no room for creativity. My brain is very one sided (I can't remember which side - Left or Right, but the logical analytical - anal - geeky type) and I have been wanting to "balance things up" (by opening up the other half of my brain - to emotions, feelings, empathy and generally "softer" realms). I guess this blog was a start point for that. Then photography was a follow-on, as well as starting to work on some (small) paintings and arty stuff. All of these have been sidelined for "productive" activities: Yawn.

Of course, my love of language and languages also links nicely with this point. That is also something that has been on the back-burner for some time (on a very low heat and with insufficient seasoning, may I add).

Thus, I have reassessed my measurement criteria of "How am I doing?" and decided to add the seventh category: Creativity (C). Immediately, it gives me a new sense of worlds to explore, goals to achieve and stuff that I would like to do. They were being excluded and I always felt I was "wasting time" if I was pursuing anything which was in the C category. Hence the dwindling of the little light in my corner of the worldwide-bloggy-netty-electronic-databits- flying-around-very-fast-thing.

So, let's see how much difference a letter makes... Hello, C! How are you? Can I make you my NYR, huh? Please? Can I?

Al Ain to Dubai daily

2007-12-14T06:24:00.000+04:00

Perhaps unsurprisingly, considering how wonderful Al Ain is and the difficulties in finding reasonably priced accomodation in Dubai, I am beginning to hear about people commuting to Dubai on a daily basis from the UAE's garden city.

With the Emirates Road less than an hour away, for those with jobs outside the central districts, I can see the attraction. Live in an oasis and travel to the metropolis. Will Al Ain become another Dubai-dorm for the better-off, just as Sharjah has for the lower-paid?

One of my neighbours has a son who recently moved here from the US. He commutes daily to Media City in Dubai. That's close to three hours driving a day. But, petrol is cheap and Dubai housing, especially for a singleton, is not. Another also makes the round trip five times a week. I know of others who teach three days a week in Dubai and work from home (sweet home) the remainder of the week.

If this is on the increase as I suspect, there may be a case for a train service, Al Ain to Dubai and Al Ain - Abu Dhabi, before long. That would sure be an improvement from an environmental perspective. Rental rates in Al Ain have shot up recently too as more and more make this move.

Sunset Sky over Jebel Hafeet

2007-11-06T07:26:00.000+04:00

Eid Nasheed

2007-10-10T17:26:00.000+04:00

It's almost Eid! It's almost Eid!!! I am officially on holiday now (although, I had an easy work day to finish off the week).

It seems like the Ramadhan buzz ends on the night of the 27th, which some assume automatically to be Laylat-al Qadr - the night of Power. There are many sites which deal with the "search for Laylat-al Qadr" which are worth a read. The masjids are jam-packed and there's a warm glow of achievement that we've made it this far along with tears during the "Qur'aan completion" prayer.

My sister-in-law is organising a Nasheed for Eid "sing-song" which the children will perform at their Eid celebrations in Dubai at the weekend. Here are the lyrics to the song, which I thought was wonderfully fun.

Did you ever hear about the boy who ate and ate and ate?

He ate early in the morning and he ate when it was late.

But he didn't thank Allah for all the yummy food he had

And he ate so much it made him sick!

Which really made him sad.

He ate dates in Damascus,which he thought were very nice.

And hot samoosas in Sumatra, seasoned with a special spice.

He had tacos in Tijuana with some sauce he got from Spain

And a bowl of fresh bakajava that he bartered in Bahrain.

He said gyros made in Cairo are a taste that can't be beat,

And the lemonade in Yemen made a very special treat.

But the turkey made in Turkey could still use a pinch of salt.

If you ever go to Malta you should have a chocolate malt!

He had pizza in his pocket, he had ketchup on his shirt,

And he bought an ice-cream sundae,so he wouldn't miss dessert.

On a bay in the Bahamas he had bon-bons in a bunch.

Then he rushed back home so he could make it

Just in time for lunch!

Then one day he saw a little girl who held her tummy tight,

And he walked over and asked her "Is everything alright??"

She said she was so hungry and had been hungry for so long...

Then he realized... the way he ate was very very wrong.

He looked down at his tummy and started feeling pain -

Pain from eating too much food but he knew not to complain.

So he brought the girl some food, shared it with her family,

Then they thanked Allah for what they had, and then he let them be.

So let's try to learn a lesson and let's try to do what's right.

Eat the food your parents give you without a fuss or fight.

Always be thankful to Allah for all your yummy food,

Share what you have with others, because not sharing is really rude.

Being thankful is what's really great.
Eat the veggies on your plate!!

And don't be like the boy who ate and ate and ate!

History of Islam in England

2007-09-28T08:04:00.000+04:00

There is an old masjid in Woking, Surrey, which I visited several years ago. It is well known as the oldest mosque in Britain, having been built in 1889. It is a beautiful masjid. The history of the mosque is given here.

They clearly name it as the oldest purpose-built masjid in Britain.

Until today, I was unaware of the oldest actual masjid. The Liverpool Mosque was established by William Abdullah Quilliam, an English solicitor, who then went about preaching Islam - in the late 19th century!

It's a fascinating story. There's more from the Independent here.

The One

2007-09-24T18:02:00.000+04:00

Ashes to ashes
Dust to dust
The next leg of this journey
We all must take
To answer three questions:
Lifestyle
Lord
and Leader
So trust in The One
The Merciful
Kind
Powerful
and Just.
Clean the rust from your heart
Before that next leg begins
Remove worldly lust from your soul
And return to The One

The Way to a Man's Heart

2007-09-14T06:26:00.000+04:00

This is a little note
To show you I care.
In times of trouble
I'll always be there.

I'll give you a hug
In times of sorrow.
Only pausing to say,
"Can we have Biryani tomorrow?"

Air Con

2007-09-14T06:23:00.000+04:00

Well - back in the hot weather, our apartment has the most basic of air-conditioning control systems. There is a thermostatic switch and another dial, which allows variation in the strength of the air flow.

The switch is made up of three main parts. It has a dial which shows the current room temperature, and a desired temperature which can be changed. Above these there are two small switches, one for selecting between Cool-Off-Heat and one for selecting On and Auto. The numbers on the front seem to be so badly calibrated. There is no relationship between the temperature shown and reality.

This results in guesswork and the "it's too hot turn it down, it's too cold turn it up" syndrome. So, instead of using the "Auto" function properly, we end up moving the dial or flicking the switches repeatedly ourselves throughout the day.

My solution for this is to switch the system to Auto and turn the temperature setting right down to the lowest end. At the same time, if it is already very hot in the house to turn the fan strength to the maximum. This basically starts to freeze the place! When the temperature feels just right in most of the rooms served by the A/C (I have a wander around to make sure), I first adjust the speed of the fan to give a pleasant breeze. This, for us, is about half the full speed. Then I adjust the temperature dial up very slowly until it just clicks off. I have been tempted at this point to tape the dials and knobs in place to prevent further tampering! The house will slowly warm (depending on the time of day) and the A/C will switch back in to restore your pleasant breeze at the temperature you want.

The way the thermostat works is this:

Inside the dial, there is a mercury switch. This would make a good "weapon" in a whodunnit. Colombo arrives to discover that the scene-of-the-crime is freezing (he has his coat on anyway) and the A/C switch is broken. Later the post-mortem reveals mercury poisoning as the cause of death... But I digress (bup-por ni tarkari).

Anyway, a bimetalic strip changes length on its two sides at different rates. The strip is wound in a coil. So, when the temperature increases the coiling tightens, tilting the mercury switch to the closed or "on" position, so the A/C switches on. When the bimetalic strip cools, the coil loosens, tilting the switch back the other way and off goes the air-con.

So, switch the A/C on to full blast and wait for the perfect temperature to be reached, then adjust the mercury tilt switch to "trigger" at just that temperature.

It means I take no notice of the numbers on the front of the dial. I set the temperature based on the right feel in the rooms. By slowing down the fan strength to a breeze, I think that the settings now made can remain the same throughout the year.

The trouble for me is that the good lady finds it far too cold most of the time and always wants the place warmer than me. The compromise has had to be: to keep the A/C adjusted to her preference and then I use an additional floor-standing fan for local cooling. I don't see why she couldn't just wear a cardigan!

Walk on the Wild Side

2007-09-14T06:08:00.000+04:00

For the first time since arriving in Al Ain, I felt confident enough to take a walk in the midday sun. Yep, it's taken two years (I don't enjoy the heat).

Continuously, I have been avoiding the strongest of the day's rays, either by remaining indoors or only travelling by car or taxi - even for the shortest trips.

Well, since my focus after the summer break is on P and S, without messing up F (check here for explanation of the letters) and with half an eye on how I can make an effort to reduce my personal impact on the environment, I decided to walk home from work today.

Talking of reducing personal impact on the environment, why do people need clothes dryers (I mean the electric machine variety, not the metal-wire-frame-clothes-horse-in-the-spare-room sort) in this country? The temperatures are searing and with the gentle breeze to go with it, clothes are dry in no time. Perhaps, the sand getting to your clothes before you have had a chance to wear them? I am surprised that there would be a need for dryers in this country. Don't forget that these things pump out heat (and often moisture) into your house, ready for the A/C to work overtime to suck it back to restore the balance = double impact on our sensitive Mother Earth. Air Con for survival in this country is nigh-on a must, but dryers..?

I digress (yesterday's prune and banana fritters).

So, last week one afternoon, after downing two glasses of water and starting the stopwatch on my (borrowed) Nokia 6100, I set out. Within a few metres, my first obstacle - a busy roundabout. Bad timing. Everyone's out horns-a-honkin' at 1pm.

Second obstacle, two sandy strips between different sections of pavement. I knew I would end up getting sand in my shoes. This is something I really don't enjoy.

I remembered my very salt-of-the-earth Irish neighbour, who since arriving here has walked and taxied everywhere. I gave him a lift the other day, just on midday. He was red-faced and glowing. I said I thought it was mad dogs and Englishmen, not Irishmen too!

The upside was passing through Jimi Mall, as it is roughly half way along the route. Aah! I realised what it must have been like to traverse the deserts in the blazing heat and finally arrive at a cooling oasis. A gentle stroll through there (sunglasses still on - not so cool), reminded me of walking down an English High Street, plenty of hustle and bustle all around. Yellow Teletubby-balloon-freak scares me witless as usual as I wander by.

In all, I stopped three times to talk to people I know on that half hour walk. Two cars drove up with drivers winding down their windows for a pass-the-time-of-day chat. Al Ain is quite a small place after all.

What with Ramadhan (it makes a great excuse for so many of my weaknesses), I won't be doing that again for a while. Insha Allah, back to it after a month, when the midday heat should have faded somewhat.

Round up of Links

2007-09-13T10:30:00.000+04:00

I have posted a few links recently. Since it is Ramadhan, I just thought I would do a quick round up of some of them (as I posted some as comments):

You Tube of the Muslim Jesus programme is available from here (along with other videos).
The best Qur'an viewer program I have ever seen is here
Access to some excellent English speeches from England, including one about the spirit of Ramadhan as well as summary tafseer for the recitation from last year's Taraweeh are available here.

Tafseer means an explanation, so it is more than just tarjumah (translation), shedding more light upon the verses of Qur'an. Taraweeh is the special night prayer during Ramadhan.

Purity and Peace

2007-09-12T18:29:00.000+04:00

I think BLOG is short for BackLOG. I have so many topics I want to write about. I just don't seem to get around to it, even though I have oodles of time on my hands.

Anyway, let's start with the latest snippets, to whet the appetite: Ramadhan Mubarak! Ramadhan Kareem! May Allah bless you during this holy month. Here's the BBC website's comment about us Muslims moaning too much because we're hungry! Yeah, whatever. As most people would say, we eat far more - and far less healthily at a guess - in Ramadhan (and the Eid thereafter) than we would on any normal day. I have to say, although I don't really like the pictures, I do like the idea that Jimi Mall has had: the guy praying and prostrating (in sujood) with the minarets in the background reminding us of the importance of spirituality and prayer during the special month.

The main thing I wanted to mention today was the moving experience I had yesterday at the beautiful masjid down the road. I arrived ahead of time for the Zuhr prayer to find an ambulance outside and several dishdasha'd locals loitering outside. Inside, again quite a few immaculately turned out Emirati men of all ages praying, reading the Qur'an or whisper-chatting to one another. As the time for prayer approached more and more were arriving, including a few that I recognised. Each new arrival, in pure white along with the traditional head covering in white, cream or red/white, going forward to a few senior men at the front where they would touch noses and greet each other with salaam.

By the time for prayer and Iqamah (the announcement for the start of prayer) the mosque was crammed. At the end of the Iqamah, on mention of "La ilaha il-Allah" a chorus of quiet voices burst forth to reiterate the words. A quite amazing sound. The next sound I heard was quite strange as hundreds of ghutrahs (the black rope band around the arabian headdress) were dropped to the floor and the echo went around the masjid.

After the main prayer, the announcement was made in Arabic that a Janazah (funeral) prayer would take place. I watched as a body covered in white sheets (the kaffan - is that where the English coffin comes from?) was brought in from the side entrance to the front. The short prayer took place. Then the kaffan was raised above head height and quietly carried on an ocean of white from the front out of the two main doors, which are seldom opened. There was complete hush and I was overwhelmed with feelings of peace and purity. I don't know who it was that had passed away. May he rest in peace.

I have seen the mosque more crammed than this on occasions of Friday prayers. But that would be with a very mixed community of people from many nations, wearing a variety of clothes and colours. This felt very different. A family affair. The whole family, the very large, extended family, united. A nation. Mourning the passing, I presume, of one of their elders. Purity that was unsullied, an uncorrupted white. Peace that was a harmony of hushed prayer, unity and love.

I've Hit A Century!

2007-09-06T12:25:00.000+04:00

Woo hooo!

This is my one hundredth post. I am chuffed.

Is anybody (out there - hello..? Lo..? Lo..? Anybody there..? Ere..? Ere? Echo! Cho! Cho!) still reading this stuff?

Beautiful Quran Site

2007-09-06T12:16:00.000+04:00

I just love this Flash app site for viewing and reading the Quran. The buttons and notes are in Arabic, so I had to wander about a bit to try out the different features, but I think it is beautiful and an excellent resource if I feel like dipping into the deep stuff on a dreary dishwater day at the office.

I mailed the link to a friend who said "shame there's no sound!" To which I replied that you're supposed to provide the sound by reading the thing!!

Strength in Unity

2007-08-17T18:30:00.000+04:00

This is an amazing video of a herd of buffalo saving one of their young from the clutches of a pride of lions and a crocodile! It is really worth a watch.

Brown Bridgets

2007-06-18T22:18:00.000+04:00

I saw this excellent article about the issues of British Asians (focusing in the article on the women) are having finding a partner. I sent the following comment in.

There has to be something mentioned (similar to some of the points already raised, e.g., Ash, London and "not a single asian man", UK) that the expectations within the Asian communities are often excessively high for a partner. The pressures come from the parents, placing heavy restrictions such as country (and sometimes village!!) of origin, homeliness, income and family background, but also from the singletons themselves.

Possibly, some of this can be linked with the sub-conscious effect of Bollywood movies, which commonly follow a Cindarella-esque "Prince Charming... Happily ever after" plotline. The dreams are set in stone, the prospects visit for tea and samosas in near conveyor-belt fashion and the call of "next!" can be heard even before the prospect has been seen.

Things will change with increased divorce rates (myself and my wife being part of those statistics) and greater "risk-taking" singletons. They're fighting against the skin-colour/village of origin/income bracket mentality. But they should also compromise on the looks/looks/looks of the Bollywood stars.

How Is My Heart?

2007-06-08T14:59:00.000+04:00

I posted a picture on the photo blog of a crumbling doorway to the yard of a small old house, which I pass every day on my way to work. I love the hearts and the colours, especially the touch of green still surviving on one of the panels.

It reminds me of the saying:

Hearts become rusty as does iron with water.
What can clean hearts again?
Recitation of the Qur'aan and
Remembrance of death.

Sincerity

2007-06-08T14:49:00.000+04:00

I saw Dale Carnegie's famous book many years ago with someone's belongings. I didn't see the owner and (without permission) picked it up and flicked through it. I was so affected, that I hunted out pen and paper and wrote out all the principles Carnegie identified. I still have those scraps of paper.

Last year I saw the book in The Bookshop in Al Ain; overpriced, but I purchased it anyway. I love the quaint style and friendly tone. Every now and then I pick it up to attempt to implement the principles and relate them to the words of the Prophet (may peace be upon him). Mr. Carnegie quotes other leaders, the spiritual included, and the messages in the book are consistent with the Truth taught by many world philosophies and religions. Though he reminds us that the principles should be based on selflessness and sincerity (for example, in "How to Make People Instantly Like You", that "if we are so contemptibly selfish that we can't radiate a little happiness and pass on a bit of honest appreciation without trying to get something out of the other person in return, we shall meet with the failure we so richly deserve", he nevertheless indicates the success of his principles on many occasions through achievement of personal, frequently financial, gain.

This could be where religion in general and Islam in particular differ from the principles. That the applying of such principles is for the achievement of a higher, spiritual goal. Hopefully, resulting in a humility, "god-consciousness", tranquility and "Nirvana" as promised by the representatives of the higher being (may peace be upon them all).

Free Will

2007-06-04T16:20:00.001+04:00

A nice explanation came from an elderly Canadian Muslim (whose father was a priest), who asked three questions:

1 - Did you come into this world by your own will?
2 - Will you leave this world by your own will?
3 - If neither of the first two were by your own will, then how can you try and pass the intervening period that way?

Night Photos

2007-06-04T16:16:00.000+04:00

I love taking pictures at night in Al Ain. I just saw this and commented:

The great thing about photography in Al Ain is that the sky is clear of any "obstructions", like tall buildings. So a picture of a masjid is JUST that! Sometimes, you may get a nighttime shot which includes a star or the moon, but no other "interference"!

Descartes will be turning in his grave

2007-06-03T17:56:00.000+04:00

I think therefore I exist
I work therefore I persist

Cogito Strikes Again

2007-06-03T17:54:00.000+04:00

I think therefore I am
I understand therefore I will be

If

2007-05-08T17:51:00.000+04:00

If at first you don't succeed
Pray
Then try again.

Language Spread

2007-04-25T14:57:00.000+04:00

I had a fascinating discussion with an American linguist the other day and spent the whole evening discussing it with the Mrs.

We are both of Asian origin, first generation Brits, with English as our first language and Gujerati as our mother tongue, but then on top of that, we understand (and speak basic) Urdu as this is the language of Islamic literature and education in (a large part of) the sub-continent. But then, to top it all, we can read (without understanding) Arabic, as this is the true basis for Islam.

One point from the linguist was that a similar situation is seen in Indonesia, the largest Muslim populated country in the world. Yes, many are surprised that the muslim vox popularis is not an Arab voice. I suggested that this may be due to the rapid spread of the Islamic faith, when there was insufficient educational infrastructure to develop the language, only permitting the rudimentary level required to be able to read the Qur'an and to perform Salaat (prayers). Early adopters of Islam also adopted the language, as is seen across northern Africa.

Now, many "New Muslims", "Converts", "Reverts" in the English-speaking world are on the opposite end of the system. Again, the basis is that Islam is spreading without much lingual infrastructure. So, some make the effort to take courses while others make do with translations. But, for sure there is a new drive to learn the Arabic language. Later generations of non-Arab Muslims are starting to "see the light".

I am regularly questioned about being Muslim but not understanding Arabic. The latest, on being asked why I have an "Arab" name, I responded that the name is used by millions of non-Arabs.

Semi Finals Galore

2007-04-25T14:44:00.000+04:00

I haven't posted for a while, so here are a few words...

Both the European Champions' League and the Cricket World Cup have reached the semi final stages after long and winding roads.

Manchester United will be hopeful after a breath-taking last gasp (and other bronchial metaphors) winner from Roonaldo. I wouldn't be surprised if both they and AC are all guns ablazin' in the second leg, ready for a 4-3 scoreline with Man U going through on away goals!

Next come Liverpool and Chelsea. Two north England rivals in the final would be great, but I would be more than content with an all England final. It could be the unorthodox Crouch heading home for 'Pool to clinch it.

Talking of unorthodox, the Sri Lankan bowling attack aren't exactly run-of-the-mill. Doing what England failed to, they dealt with NZ comfortably. The strategy of not playing the whirling dervish pair of Malinga and Murali against Australia could just pay off. That is, of course, if the unbeaten Aussies surpass SA once more. They may be the stronger outfit, but there may be one more upset left in this competition...

Lungi and Izaar

2007-04-14T10:52:00.000+04:00

There appear to be many words common to the vocabulary of my mother tongue and Arabic. I am amazed frequently. Until recently, I had assumed that my mother tongue (Gujerati, from India) was an amalgam of Urdu, Hindi and other Indian dialects. Now, I am finding that many words are different to the equivelent in the Asian languages but the same as the Arabic.

I am slowly finding out more about this, and it appears that there must have been trade routes between the gulf and the west coast of India (including Gujerat) from even before the time of Islamic expansion. On a trip with my parents to Oman, my dad commented regularly about the architecture, lifestyle and even the clothing reminding him of his childhood in India!

An example is the word izaar in Arabic, which is the lower garment wrapped by men around the waist, underneath their long white robe, the kandura. In Gujerati, there is a word ijaar which means trousers. Strangely though, there is a wrap, similar to the izaar worn in India which we call a lungi. This is quite common across most of the East, particularly in Bangladesh but also to Malaysia, even I guess the equivalent of a sarong. It is interesting to see that the Arabic word izaar became a translation of trousers and lungi appeared to signify the wrap.

Why Don't You

2007-04-11T12:48:00.000+04:00

I have always been a Telly Addict. There was a TV show when I was younger called "Why Don't You...?" It was short for:

Why Don't You Just Switch Off You Television Set And Go Out And Do Something Less Boring Instead?

(Yes, it was a TV show!)
But, I pretty much watch zero TV these days. Yes, the odd sports match (I wouldn't have minded watching Man U last night).

In general, I think it's a very good move to minimise (or remove completely) TV.

Interesting website:
http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2007/04/09/ten-financial-reasons-to-turn-off-your-television-and-ten-things-to-replace-it-with/

Aerosol Arabic in the USA

2007-04-09T19:09:00.001+04:00

Cutting edge cultural dialogue - Acclaimed British Muslim artist teams up with Arts Council England in groundbreaking US "Arts and Islam" tour

Mohammed Ali's unique fusion of aerosol art with Islamic calligraphy has taken an urban art form from street walls to galleries and spiritual art into new dimensions. His art has been reported as a "bridge of understanding" between faith communities across the world, and has been featured in international media ranging from CNN and the BBC to Al Jazeera. He has showcased his work across the UK, Dubai and Denmark and is looking forward to his first visit to the USA.

The tour is supported by Arts Council England, the national development agency for the arts in England. The Philips Academy, Islamic Circle of North America (ICNA), along with other cosponsors are hosting the Arts & Islam USA Tour featuring the acclaimed "urban Islamic" artist, Mohammed Ali of AerosolArabic. The Arts and Islam team will be visiting universities, arts organisations and community bodies across Chicago, New York, New Jersey and Boston.

In addition to the seminars, Mohammed Ali will be producing a series of commissioned spiritual murals, including a special mural in New York City commemorating the tragic death of 9 Bronx children who died in a blaze recently. Working with young people from all faith backgrounds, Mohammed will create wall murals reflecting the universal themes of spirituality and unity that connect people of all backgrounds and cultures. Mohammed has already produced a series of stunning murals across the UK which can be seen at the official Arts and Islam website http://www.artsandislam.com/murals

"The goal of this tour is to elucidate Islamic themes and messages through a medium which can universally be understood and appreciated by all. Mohammad Ali's work transcends artificial barriers such as ethnicity, nationality, class, and perceived religious differences which prevent us from understanding one another" said Azeem Khan, ICNA's Assistant Secretary General.

The schedule for the Arts and Islam USA programme is as follows:

Chicago: April 11th - 14th
Mural - Fri April 13th 10 AM - 4 PM & Sat April 14th 10 AM - 5 PM
6224 N. California Ave, Chicago, IL, 60659

Seminar - Fri April 13th 5 PM - 8 PM
UIC Student Center East - The Rathskellar
750 South Halsted Street, Chicago, Illinois 60607

New York April 15th - 19th
Mural - Mon April 16th 12 PM - 6 PM & Tues April 17th 11 AM - 7 PM
371 E. 166th St., Bronx, NY 10456
*- This Mural is dedicated to the victims of the Bronx Fire

Seminar - Mon April 16th 7 PM - 10:30 PM
Columbia University East Campus - Heyman Center for Humanities
W 116th St & Amsterdam Ave, New York, NY 10027

New Jersey April 18th
Seminar - Wed April 18th 6 PM - 9 PM
Rutgers University College Ave Campus - Brower Commons
145 College Ave, New Brunswick, NJ 08901

Boston/Massachusetts April 20th - 21st
Workshop - Friday April 20th 1 PM- 3 PM
Phillips Academy - Elson Art Center
180 Main Street, Andover, MA 01810

Seminar - Friday April 20th 6 PM - 8 PM
Phillips Academy - Kemper Auditorium
180 Main Street, Andover, MA 01810

Photo Blogging

2007-04-08T11:02:00.000+04:00

I am not the keenest of photographers, but with my new camera am snapping away fairly regularly.

The wife got hold of it (Frankie Howard would be proud) and took a few shots herself yesterday.

I would like to post more pictures, but I usually process them on my home computer which has a tediously slow internet connection. Posting from work means a faster link, but then all the rigmarole of transferring files - not my preferred pastime! I'll look into trimming down the file sizes some how, to make it easier.

Perhaps I should be looking to save to a CD anyway: the best shots at least. I may then go ahead and print some...

Hmmm...

Tiger Tiger Burning Bright

2007-04-08T10:58:00.000+04:00

Wow! I am really pleased for the young Bangladesh team.

They've put some life back into a withering competition.
They've proven that they are not minnows, there for the taking.
They've proven that the India win was no fluke.

And a key word - YOUNG. They should go on to bigger and better things.

Comment on Religion

2007-04-05T10:12:00.000+04:00

Islam is no weirder than Christianity.

Both of them are just Judaism with the jokes taken out.

Jeremy Hardy

I Know Nothing

2007-03-31T21:27:00.000+04:00

Finally, the realisation has dawned on me that I don't know anything.

I really must learn to stop spouting nonsense based on hearsay and conjecture in the belief that I know what I am talking about. Being opinionated is one thing, but giving an opinion without knowledge is typical of an ignoramus like me.

The Qur'an requires knowledge and skills (as listed in my previous post). Since I have none of these, I should not be giving my "thoughts" on Qur'anic verses.

I heard that anyone who gives their own opinion about a verse (saying, for example that "I think this verse means xyz..." has made an error even if his opinion is a correct one.

This is where scholars come in. Asking scholars about Islam and Islamic issues is the best way to resolve a problem or question or understand a verse of the Qur'an. Even then, the aim of asking is to bring the correct practice into one's own life and not just for the purposes of discussion or debate.

I wish I had some knowledge. And the most important knowledge is the answering of the questions in the grave.

"Allahumma Alhimnee Rushdee"
"Rabbe zidnee 'ilmaa"

Who knows their Cricket?

2007-03-30T07:07:00.000+04:00

And there was me thinking I knew the game of cricket inside out. In any case, the tournament has no lustre with the shocking murder of Bob Woolmer.

Still, I have to eat some humble pie and admit defeat to the greatest cricket pundit in our household.

Last year, when the schedule for the 2007 Cricket World Cup was announced, I challenged my wife to make some predictions for the first round (group stages). On many of the games we agreed and were both right. On two (the two shocks: Pakistan and India losing to Ireland and Bangladesh, respectively) we were both wrong. However, of the 7 where we had a difference of opinion, the results are as follows:

West Indies beat Pakistan - her prediction correct. 1 - 0
Kenya beat Canada - her prediction correct. 2 - 0
Zimbabwe tied with Ireland - I had backed Ireland, close one. 2.5 - 0.5
New Zealand beat England - her prediction correct. 3.5 - 0.5
Netherlands beat Scotland - my prediction correct. 3.5 - 1.5
Sri Lanka beat India - her prediction correct. 4.5 - 1.5
Australia beat South Africa - her prediction correct. 5.5 - 1.5

So, I have been thoroughly trounced by the outstanding cricketing knowledge of my wife. She was rather smug about it when I confirmed this result. She says it's because her dad has always been super-mad on cricket so she knows a thing or two. Had Ireland pulled off the win against Zimbabwe, it would have been a slightly less disgraceful 5 - 2. At least I managed to predict the Netherlands win!

Oh dear.

Sciences of understanding the Qur'an

2007-03-29T10:40:00.000+04:00

Lughat, i.e., philology of language

Nahv, i.e., syntax, a branch of grammar

Sarf, i.e., etymology, knowing the root words and conjugations

Ishtiqaq, i.e.,derivatives and derivations

Ilm-ul-Ma'ani, i.e., knowledge of semantics

Ilm-ul-Bayan, i.e., knowledge of figures of speech

Ilm-ul-Badi', i.e., knowledge of rhetoric

Ilm-ul-Qir'at, i.e., knowledge of the art of pronunciation

Ilm-ul-'Aqaid, i.e., knowledge of the fundamentals of faith

Usul-e-Fiqah i.e., Principles of Islamic Jurisprudence

Asbab-un-nazul, i.e., the particular circumstances which caused the revelation

Nasikh-mansukh, i.e., knowledge of commandments that have subsequently been abrogated or changed

Ilm-ul-Fiqah, i.e., knowledge of Islamic Jurisprudence

Knowledge of such 'ahadith' that are commentary on the Qur'an.

Ilm-e-Wahbi, or the gifted understanding

Cricket World Cup

2007-03-06T19:28:00.000+04:00

With the first match only a week away, here's a nice summary page to get in the mood. Shame they're talking of a low scoring tournament.

I wouldn't like to make a prediction as one-dayers can throw up surprises. I think quality fielding on the smaller pitches may play a big part, though.

For some reason

2007-03-04T10:22:00.000+04:00

For some reason this blog has gone in the direction of religion. It was never my intention at the outset. I just wanted to write about the world around me. A lot of it very new and different. Surprising. Yes, I wanted to include aspects of Islam, the different feel for a "Westerner" now in the Mid-East and the pressures of being (and remaining) Muslim in this day and age.

I wanted to talk about other stuff in my life. And not in my life. Not a chance to get into any of that. Perhaps there is a hidden space that can only be filled by a spiritual outlook. Perhaps that which is not in my life can only be addressed with the heart. Hence the resultant unintentional focus.

Still. At least the picture of the masjid is nice.

Then this happens:

A young man asked me about the origins of the phrase "Good Bye" suggesting it had some link with the Pope (he said "Baba", I could only figure he was talking about him). As far as I understood it, the origin of the phrase goes like this:
Good from "God"
B a shortened form for "Be with"
Ye from the olde English for "You" (as would have been used by Bill Shakes in R&J)
So, forsooth, it originates from "God Be With You", methinks.

As Salaam is one of the names of God (lit. The Source of Peace). So, As Salaam Alaykum means pretty much the same thing.

May the Source of Peace be with You.

Suicide Mecca

2007-02-18T10:16:00.000+04:00

Astounding

Fix it

2007-02-17T08:44:00.000+04:00

Man aslaha ma baynahu wa bayn Allah
Aslah Allah ma baynahu wa bayna khalqihee

If I correct the relationship between myself and Allah
Allah will correct the relationship between myself and his creation

(I think this comes from a Hadith)

8 Special Gifts

2007-01-30T07:09:00.000+04:00

I really should do more of these...

Al Ain Air Show

2007-01-29T11:02:00.000+04:00

We went along to the Al Ain Air Show yesterday, second year running, for a great day out. Good value at 25D for adults, but many enjoyed decent views by sitting outside on the grass or in the car park. Last year we were there with my parents and found it a bit cold during the afternoon, once the grandstand is in shade. This time, prepared with a flask of tea and a blanket to sit on, we enjoyed the show in relative comfort.

The highlight was the "dogfight" with pyrotechnics galore. The announcer sounded English. Comparing this show to the likes of Berlin, Paris and Farnborough, he said it was the best and he loved this country. One of the advantages of the Al Ain show, he explained, is that the skyline is free from distractions. Yep, just miles of sand.

I was tempted to take the camera, but I think I made the right decision - just enjoy the display and leave the snapping to the experts. To get any good pictures, you really need some high quality, high zoom equipment.

The Pakistan Air Force display team ventured abroad for the first time. They and the Saudi team put on excellent shows (unlike Saudi in the football).

The Red Arrows had a mobile flight simulation set up to experience an aerobatics performance from the cockpit. Another interesting exhibition display from a club for microlights based in Ras Al Khaimah, they have three microlights and a few club members who own their own. You can take a 15 minute trip up for 100 Dirhams or an hour for 300. Bird's eye views of Ras Al Khaimah's coastline should be exhilarating, so RAK is now on my "next trip" radar.

The Story of Salman

2007-01-21T19:06:00.000+04:00

Salman relates in detail how he accepted Islam:
He was a resident in the province of Asbahan in Persia, at a place called Jay. He says:
"My father was a leader of that place. He loved me very much. I tried very hard to become a success in my original religion of Zoroastrianism and thus became a caretaker of the temple.

"Once my father sent me on an errand for him. On the way I passed a Christian church. I went inside to see the place and saw the Christians praying there. I liked what I saw there. I was attracted to this religion and remained there till the evening. I enquired from them where their headquarters were. They replied that they were in Shaam (Syria). When I returned home in the evening, my family asked me where I had been the whole day. I related to them what had happened. My father said: 'That religion is no good. Your religion and the religion of your forefathers is the best.' I replied, 'Never. That religion is the best!' My father feared that I would leave the house and go away to another place. He fastened a chain to my leg and locked me up in the house.

"I sent a message to the Christians that they should inform me when the merchants from Shaam, who often came in trade, arrived. After the message reached me, at the time of their departure I cut loose from my chains and ran away to join the caravan. When I reached Shaam, I enquired who the best and most learned in this religion was. The people directed me to a certain bishop. I went to him and explained that I would like to become a Christian and stay in his company (to study). He agreed and I remained with him, but found him do be dishonest. He persuaded the people to give charity and put in his treasure whatever he collected. He did not give the poor anything.

"After he died, another bishop was appointed in his place. He was a pious person and did not care for material possessions. I remained with him and began to love him. When his end came near I asked him to whom I should go (for spiritual progress) after him. He replied that there was only one person in the world following the same path and there was none besides. He could be found in Mosul.

"After this bishop's demise, I went to Mosul and related my story to the bishop. He allowed me to stay in his service. He was a very good person. When his end came near, I asked him also where I should go. He told me to go to Naseebayn. I stayed in Naseebayn and when the bishop's death was near, he instructed me to go to Ghamurya.

"I went there and stayed with the bishop. Here I also worked and earned some money. As a result I owned some cattle and sheep. When his end came near, he said on oath: 'There is no learned person anymore who follows our path. The time has come near when the last of all prophets will appear. He will follow the religion of Abraham. He will be born in Arabia. He will migrate to such a place where many dates grow and on both sides of this place the soil is stony. That prophet will accept gifts but not eat from charity. The Seal of Prophethood will be between his shoulder-blades. Try to go to that place.'

"After the bishop's death a few traders from the tribe of Banu Kalb passed there. I said to them, 'If you take me to Arabia, you can have my cattle and sheep in return.' They accepted and took me to Wadi al Qura (Mecca). I gave them my cattle but they oppressed me and sold me as a slave. A Jew from the tribe of Banu Qurayzah purchased me and took me to Madinah. I recognised the signs that the bishop of Ghamurya had explained to me. I said to myself, 'This is that place!'

"I lived there as a slave till the messenger of God migrated from Mecca to Madinah. When I heard he had arrived in Quba, nearby I took whatever I owned (some dates and fruit) and presented it to him, saying 'This is a charity donation (Sadaqah).' The messenger did not partake of it. I said to myself that one sign has been fulfilled.

"I returned to Madinah. In the meantime, the messenger also came to live there. I collected a few things (dates, food) and returned to him, saying 'This is a gift.' He partook of it and I said to myself this is the second sign. Thereafter, I once attended his assembly at the graveyard of Baqi. It was a funeral for one of his followers. I greeted him and made an attempt to look at his back. He understood what I was doing, and moved his sheet. I saw the Seal of Prophethood and in zeal bowed and kissed it, crying. The messenger of God said 'Come in front of me.' I came before him and related my whole story and made witness (became Muslim).

"After that I continued to serve my master in slavery. I was a slave to ten different masters. Once, the prophet said 'Make an agreement with your master to allow you to purchase your freedom.' I did so and he made two conditions. The first was that I should pay 40 Ukiya (160grams) of gold. The second was that I should plant 300 date palms and tend them till they bear fruit. The messenger planted the date palms with his own hands and it happened that a small amount of gold arrived from somewhere. He gave this to me and I asked 'Will this gold be enough?' The prophet replied: 'It will not be surprising if Allah fulfils the requirement with this.' I took the gold and paid the amount and I was liberated.

"The trees planted, out of season by the prophet gave fruit the same year, except one. On inquiring, it was found that it had been planted by Umar. The prophet replanted it and it bore fruit. My master was pleased as the trees bore crops twice a year!"

Santology

2007-01-19T09:21:00.000+04:00

Not to be confused with Santanology (the study of popular hispanic guitarists), there should be a new study - of Father Christmas. I know we are well into January, so I ain't got my timing right on this one, but here goes.

Al Ain Taxi wrote about a bishop who "gave the game away" by letting on that it wasn't a resurrected Saint Nicholas who distributed gifts around midnight of 25th December every year, but actually mums and dads. Santa is "folklore" and "nothing to do with Christianity". It got me thinking.

The point I wanted to raise is that I feel the myth has been incorporated (unconsciously, over time) into Christianity (or European Christian folklore?) to satisfy a need.

Since one of the central beliefs of Christianity (today, as opposed to the religion preached by Jesus, may Peace be upon him) is Atonement, there is no framework for the concept of Rewards and Punishments. Believe in Atonement, that Jesus died on the cross for your sins (and the original sin) and you are forgiven and have everlasting life.

However, in most walks of life, the ideas of reward and punishment are found - jurisdiction (sadly, mostly P and not much R), education, agriculture, sport, child-rearing... If you do something good, well, correctly you get a prize; if you do it wrong, badly, incorrectly you get a problem.

In general, we need much more reward, it seems to be lacking in society. To be more precise, we should be more generous in rewarding. Praise and thanks, appreciation and gifts for those who do well, do good, do right. We (I) need to be generous in rewarding the good acts of others. There are plenty ready to moan at the mistake, but no police officer will come and give you a tenner if you parked your car correctly.

Grades in school, crops for the farmer, promotion for the football club, bonus for the sales agent. Then, for sure, "reward" is also something all good parents do.

The thing is, this idea of reward and punishment is missing in Christianity. So, over time, in order to nurture good behaviour, Santa comes in to fill the void. If you have been good, you will get lots of toys. He knows whether you have been "naughty or nice". Children are encouraged to write "Dear Santa" letters explaining their exceptional and exemplary behaviour and can they have a new Super Monster Hell Raiser Fire Starter (batteries not included) as reward. In the marketing extravaganza, children sit on the dodgy knee of a dodgy old man wearing a dodgy white beard, as he asks (with a "Ho" or three) if they have been good this year.

In Islam, the understanding of reward and punishment is clear. Allah knows what you do. If a believer does good, s/he will be granted gifts in the after-life as well as blessings in this life. One of my favourite verses of the Qur'an is

Is there any reward for good other than good?

There is no requirement in Islam for Santa. I wonder what Jesus would say about the Santa story.